Way one · the institution
Enter the University and keep studying
Continuing membership of The 33 Gates. One consecrated Gate at a time, in order, across the whole institution — for the student who wants ongoing formation rather than one answer.
Membership grants the Gates. It does not include the specialist formations below — those are separate one-time enrolments, and are priced as such.
Way two · one territory
Take a specialist formation
One territory, one structured curriculum, enrolled in separately and kept permanently. For the student who has arrived with a specific thing to govern.
Relationship Mastery
Open for enrolmentYou will end holding four written instruments you did not have before — a manifesto that excludes, a contract that governs who may enter, a charter another named person has actually agreed to, and a book that has been opened and will be kept — and running a household calendar in which the daily, weekly and monthly observances have been demonstrated and one seasonal observance has been performed.
You leave able to
- ✦Write a manifesto that functions as a filter, naming what it forbids and what that costs
- ✦Screen for alignment rather than chemistry, against a real situation, with no score and no threshold
- ✦Speak an exit once, gracefully and firmly, that blesses the departing party
Two relationship formations
They are not the same programme at two prices
Foundation assesses what you do alone, about what has already happened. Mastery assesses what you do with another named person who has agreed, and has amended, about what you are building. Foundation declares; Mastery negotiates.
Am I still carrying what happened?
Assesses what you do alone
- ✦You keep meeting the same heartbreak wearing a different face.
- ✦You give access easily and take it back only by rupture.
- ✦You cannot yet say no once, in your own voice, without a paragraph of justification.
- ✦You want to stop repeating the pattern before you choose anybody else.
Relationships FoundationWhat am I building, and with whom?
Assesses what you do with another person in the room
- ✦You have already done the inward work and the question has changed.
- ✦You are building something with a specific person and it is being improvised.
Membership of the 33 Gates and a specialist formation are separate purchases. Membership does not grant the specialist formations, and a specialist enrolment does not grant membership.
Joining any list costs nothing, buys nothing, and enrols you in nothing.
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